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At work were taught to lead the conversation.On social media we shape our personal narratives.At parties we talk over one another. So do our politicians.Were not listening.And no one is listening to us.Despite living in a world where technology allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect it seems no one is really listening or even knows how. AnAt work were taught to lead the conversation.On social media we shape our personal narratives.At parties we talk over one another. So do our politicians.Were not listening.And no one is listening to us.Despite living in a world where technology allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect it seems no one is really listening or even knows how. And its making us lonelier more isolated and less tolerant than ever before. A listener by trade New York Times contributor Kate Murphy wanted to know how we got here.In this always illuminating and often humorous deep dive Murphy explains why were not listening what its doing to us and how we can reverse the trend. She makes accessible the psychology neuroscience and sociology of listening while also introducing us to some of the best listeners out there (including a CIA agent focus group moderator bartender radio producer and top furniture salesman). Its time to stop talking and start listening.(less)